Wednesday, March 22, 2006

High school journalism contest

Students: Win $1,000 for your stories

The Report It Now High School Journalism Contest invites school students to submit stories written for school newspapers - or created for broadcast on school television or radio stations. Stories should be well-researched and about an issue important to the contestant, school or community.

Maximum award: $1,000. Eligibility: High school students in the United States. Deadline: March 31, 2006. Celebrity judges will be Dan Rather of CBS News and Ann Curry of the Today Show and NBC Dateline. More info: http://www.participate.net/cta/37/33


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Examining the dynamics of girlfriends

Two’s Company, Three’s a Fight
by Frances Cohen Praver, Ph.D.


Ever notice that a girl sticks to a best friend, yet a boy hangs out with several boys? From the get-go, girls establish more intense and possessive relationships with one other girl than boys do. Little girls and adolescent girls have a hard time sharing themselves with another girl. They become possessive of their best friends and are apt to be fiercely jealous. Just like in an exclusive adult love relationship, a girl fears a third girl will steal her friend (lover). And she’ll be alone. A third girl threatens her close, intimate, friendship.

Girls share their deep dark secrets with their best friend, their feelings, and their love. They become dependent and vulnerable to loss of this valuable source of comfort and security. Boys are different. Bonding with several boys over activities, they do things together in groups of two, three, or more. Unlike girls boys relationships are not predicated on the discussion of feelings, disclosure of secrets. Too close a relationship with one other boy could mean he’ll become dependent on him and that he’ll be seen as ‘girlish’, or gay. So a boy feels safer in a group of boys doing things together.

Much like an exclusive two-person adult meaningful love relationship where a third woman spells danger, a best friend child relationship is exclusive and cannot tolerate a third girl. In my practice, I see many girls and adolescents that fight verbally and even physically with her their best friends over their attentions to another girl. She may even fight the third girl to maintain her status as the ‘only one’ with her best friend, just like a jealous wife may do to maintain her marriage.

Factors that influence intense, possessive friendships for girls with best friends are cultural, historical, and psychological. Over the centuries women bonded together and formed close friendships with other women. From the wellspring of close friendships, women mobilized their strengths to make personal and political changes. Second wave feminism sprung out of close friendships.

Little girls and adolescents observe women in close friendships with other women, and they emulate their mothers and grandmothers. That’s part of how they become women. Girls and women feel free to hold hands, hug, and kiss each other. Not so for boys and men in our American culture. Fear of homosexuality pervades our society.

From a psychoanalytic/developmental perspective, the first love objects for infants are their mothers. Not only do infants want their mothers. Not only are infants dependent on their mothers for bodily security and nurturance. That’s the same for girls and boys. But for girls, mothers provide a special secondary function.

Mother is the role model for femininity. Infants wean and separate from mothers, but little girls grow into women by identifying with mothers. Little girls do not feel compelled to separate too abruptly from their mothers. For their feminine development, little girls remain psychologically closer to their mothers and do not fear the dependency.

Little boys on the other hand, fear identification with mother as they would be effeminate. So for their masculine development, boys often wrest them selves free from close relationships with mother. Boys may separate abruptly and sharply. A close exclusive relationship with another boy gives rise to homophobic fears. Not so for girls, a close intimate relationship with another girl is just what they need to feel like little girls.

The separation from mother is facilitated by a best friend. The close relationship with a best friend is the transitional object to help the little girl grow up. So the best friend is a safe way of making the transition – the separation – from the early childhood dependence on mother to independence, autonomy, and woman hood. As such, the exclusive, intense love relationship with another girl is essential for her healthy development. At some unconscious level, a third girl is much more than a third wheel. She threatens her journey towards womanhood.

As girls grow they feel more secure, more independent, and less needy of one other girl. Mature women do not rely so heavily on one other woman; they do not need them to function as transitional objects. Psychologically healthy women have made the separation from childhood and are on their adult journey. With fewer insecurities and greater maturity, women are comfortable sharing their friends. Part of the adult journey is many friends with many people.


Frances Cohen Praver is a psychologist, relational psychoanalyst and author. Her latest book, Daring Wives: Insight into Women’s Desires for Extramarital Affairs, has just been released by Praeger Publishing. For more information, visit http://www.drfranpraver.com

Note from DCS: Dr. Praver's article raises some interesting issues on the challenges of maintaining friendships. As always, your comments are welcome.


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Microsoft to boost Xbox production

Seizes on delay of PlayStation 3

Sony's PlayStation 3 won't be available for at least eight more months, but all of a sudden Microsoft Corp.'s scarce Xbox 360 will be on store shelves in abundance. Microsoft, the number two game console maker behind Sony Corp., said yesterday that it will start shipping two or three times as many Xbox 360 machines to retailers per week than it has since the system launched last November.

The ramp-up comes less than a week after Sony confirmed rumors that PlayStation 3 won't hit stores until November and follows months of Xbox 360 shortages. It also means thousands more Xbox 360s will be available, giving Microsoft a chance to take advantage of the full year between the introduction of its console and Sony's latest. Details from the Reuters.


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Friday, March 17, 2006

At the border

Bitter Sweet Spot
Arlen Specter's well-intentioned but disastrous immigration compromise.



BY TAMAR JACOBY
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
From the Wall Street Journal Editorial Page

There are few things more disappointing in politics than a well-intentioned compromise that falls short, solving nothing and satisfying no one. But that's what appears to be happening in the Senate as Judiciary Committee Chairman Arlen Specter tries to build consensus around a proposal for dealing with the estimated 11 million illegal immigrants in the U.S. More than two years after President Bush floated the idea of a guest-worker program to connect "willing workers with willing employers" and eliminate the underground economy manned by illegal immigrants, the Judiciary Committee is marking up a bill that combines a variety of proposals.

Politically, it's hard to imagine a more thankless task. Voter frustration is spiraling out of control, and the Judiciary Committee is bitterly divided, with liberals like Sen. Edward Kennedy determined to go one way on immigration, and conservatives like Sen. Jeff Sessions determined to do exactly the opposite. So Sen. Specter deserves credit for trying--and his failure is all the more disheartening. But that doesn't mean there isn't a sweet spot--a politically acceptable answer for the 11 million.

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Virtually all policy makers who have thought seriously about immigration agree that we have to do something about these unauthorized workers--not so much for their sake as for ours. Not only is the underground economy an affront to the rule of law, it's also an unacceptable security risk. Here are 11 million people whose real names we don't know, most of whom have never undergone a background check--and the illicit world they inhabit is a perfect staging ground for terrorists.

Proposals for dealing with illegal immigrants run the gamut from deportation to blanket amnesty. But the ideas taken most seriously in the Senate all start by requiring them to come forward and register with the government, then prove they are bona fide laborers, not criminals or security threats. At that point, Sens. John Cornyn and Jon Kyl would allow them to work here for five years and then send them home, albeit with the option of returning either as temporary workers or, in some cases, on permanent visas. Sens. Kennedy and John McCain would allow them to earn permanent visas without leaving the U.S.--paying a fine and all back taxes, then taking English classes while they wait their turn behind people applying in the usual way from their home countries.

Enter Sen. Specter in search of a compromise. What drove him was partly doubt that a policy requiring people to return to their home countries would work. Why would anyone sign up for that--as the common taunt goes, "report to deport"? His motives are also political: He wants as strong a majority as he can muster on the committee, including as many Republicans as possible. Otherwise his bill will have no momentum, either on the Senate floor or later, if it passes, when it has to be reconciled with the much tougher bill passed by the House in December.

The problem is that the answer Sen. Specter came up with isn't just impractical; it's un-American, and would prove disastrous for the Republican Party. He calls it the "gold card," and his bill would grant those who earned one, by coming forward and admitting they had done wrong, the right to remain in the U.S. indefinitely. The only catch: Their legal status would be conditional, and as a practical matter they would have no possibility of becoming citizens.

These provisional workers could travel at will, they could change jobs if they wanted and could bring their families to the country to live with them. But unless Congress vastly increased the annual quota of permanent visas (green cards)--a difficult step in today's political climate--most would have to wait 60 or 70 years for this prerequisite of citizenship. The result would be a permanent caste of second-class noncitizen workers, people we trusted to cook our food and tend our children and take care of our elderly relatives--but not to call themselves Americans or participate in politics. They would live in permanent limbo, at risk of deportation if they lost their jobs, hesitant to bargain with employers and unlikely to make the all-important emotional leap that is essential for assimilation.

It is no wonder that the gold card idea is foundering. Hard-liners don't like it--to them, it's just another form of amnesty. Democrats are rubbing their hands in glee--so much for President Bush's effort to make inroads with Latino voters. And many Republicans are balking at the likely campaign ads: spots asserting that throughout our history America has let immigrants become citizens, but now that the newcomers are Hispanic, the GOP is changing the rules.

Still, ham-fisted as the gold card is, Sen. Specter isn't entirely wrong. It probably is a good idea to find a compromise that can appeal to a range of Republicans and command a majority strong enough to prevail in a standoff with the House bill. No lawmaker in either chamber wants to leave himself open to the charge that he's voting for amnesty, and the more cover they have from other members, particularly conservative members, the more likely they will be to get behind reform that deals effectively with the 11 million.

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The good news is that the Senate may still get there, if not in committee, then before it passes a bill; and the compromise will probably be on the basis of approaches already on the table.

Sens. McCain and Kennedy make one of the best moral arguments: Illegal immigrants should be allowed to earn their way in out of the shadows, demonstrating by their behavior that they want to be part of mainstream America. That's why the McCain-Kennedy bill emphasizes work, taxes, English and waiting in line--a way for immigrants to prove that they want to do the right thing.

Others in Congress and among the public are more concerned with law and order. For them, what's important is that the rules hold in the first place--no special treatment and no dispensations. That's why Sens. Cornyn and Kyl would require the 11 million to leave the U.S. and re-enter the "right way," going through normal, legal channels. Though few immigrants are likely to sign up for a program that would strand them outside the country, this approach might work if the trip were streamlined; that is to say, if immigrants were allowed to come back quickly enough that they didn't lose their jobs or disrupt their families.

Finally, still another group of lawmakers makes the case that circumstances matter since, as is often true in questions of morality, mitigating factors may argue for treating different people differently. That's why Sen. Chuck Hagel, among others, argues for requiring the undocumented to go through the normal process, but then makes exceptions for those who have lived in the country for many years, putting down roots and contributing to the economy.

Which of these answers makes most sense? Perhaps a combination. Part of the goal, after all, is to find a proposal or combination of proposals can command the most votes. Of course, any compromise is risky. It can set you on a slippery slope to an unacceptable answer--in this case, a requirement so stern that few illegal immigrants would come forward to take advantage of it. The new policy has to work, practically as well as politically, and it may be too soon to make concessions; better perhaps to hold them in reserve until later in the Senate debate. But the one answer that plainly doesn't work is the status quo: an underground economy the size of Ohio that makes an ass of the law and endangers our security. There is just too much at stake not to consider every alternative. Sen. Specter got the answer wrong, but he may well have pointed his colleagues in the right direction--searching for the sweet spot, elusive as it may be.

Ms. Jacoby is a senior fellow at the Manhattan Institute.

Copyright © 2006 Dow Jones & Company, Inc.


Related: Specter proposes guest worker program, Report fuels border fight


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Thursday, March 16, 2006

TV evangelist signs multimillion-dollar book deal

Joel Osteen is living 'Your Best Life Now'

The publishing industry is abuzz with Joel Osteen's new book deal. The contract could bring the religious broadcaster more than $10 million. The deal with Free Press, a subsidiary of Simon and Schuster, could be one of the richest for a nonfiction book, according to insiders.

Osteen's new contract follows the huge success of Your Best Life Now, published in 2004. The New York Times has details.

Via: Writer's Edge


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Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Why kids drop out of school

High school dropouts: The silent epidemic

If you listen carefully, you still can't hear it. It's the sound of a third of high school students dropping out before receiving their diploma. For people of color, the figure is almost 50 percent and that has profound implications not only for the students, but for the society that failed them.


Journalist George Curry has written a compelling piece on the high school drop out rate in the U.S. You may be surprised by some of the issues Curry articulates on the dropout issue. To read his commentary, click here.

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Sunday, March 12, 2006

Entertainment by Amazon?

Online retailer in talks for movie, TV downloads

Amazon.com is holding talks with three Hollywood studios on creating a service to allow consumers to download movies and television programs and copy them onto DVDs.

Amazon reportedly is in advanced negotiations with Paramount Pictures, Universal Studios and Warner Brothers. Such a fee-based service could compete with new video download options available at Apple Computer Inc.'s popular iTunes digital download store. More from USA Today.


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Oscar goes back into the closet

Why 'Crash' overtook the 'Mountain'

It's been a week, but the topic is still fodder for the water cooler: How did Crash pull off the upset of the Oscars?

Theories abound about how the film took the best-picture Academy Award, from urban bias to an aggressive marketing campaign. But some observers also question whether voters in the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences weren't ready to embrace Brokeback Mountain, the gay-cowboy film that was expected to take the top prize last Sunday night.

Movie critic Michael Wilmington shares his thoughts in the Chicago Tribune.


Related: Wait, the Oscars really are about artistic purity?


Additional Oscar musings: I'm still trying to figure out how It's Hard Out Here for a Pimp won for Best Song!


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Offbeat news

Headlines you may have missed

Churchill Sculpture Sparks Uproar (BBC News)
A mental health charity has defended a statue it commissioned of Sir Winston Churchill in a straitjacket.

Woman Sells Ad Rights to Pregnancy on eBay (Associated Press)
If the human body is the last frontier for advertising space, then St. Louis resident Asia Francis is helping chart new territory — the big, pregnant belly.

Man Wins 'Rock, Paper, Scissors' Contest (Associated Press)
It all came down to this: Jason Wood threw a "rock," crushing Erin Smith's "scissors" and earning him a trip to Las Vegas.

Firefighters Refuse to Help Non-Member (Associated Press)
Rural firefighters stood by and watched a fire destroy a garage and a vehicle because the property owner had not paid membership dues.

Lawmaker Deflates Tire on Car in His Space (Associated Press)
A north Alabama legislator thinks he has found a way to deter someone from taking his reserved parking space outside the Alabama Statehouse — deflate the culprit's tires.


With thanks to The Associated Press and BBC News.


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Wednesday, March 08, 2006

Two arrested in Alabama church fires

Third person sought

Two Birmingham college students have been arrested for allegedly setting as many as nine church fires in Alabama. Police are searching for a third suspect. Arson investigators scheduled an afternoon news conference at the Tuscaloosa airport to discuss the arrests.

Federal law officers said the two arrested were students at Birmingham Southern College, and the third person being sought was described as a student at another Birmingham school.

All nine churches are Baptist and mostly located in isolated areas. CNN is following the story.


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Report fuels border fight

Illegal immigration grows; both sides seize on numbers

As the fight continues to tighten America's borders rages from Sacramento to Washington, D.C., a new report reveals that illegal immigration to the U.S. is up about 8 percent over last year.
According to the report, the number of undocumented immigrants has grown to as many as 12 million people. The study by the Pew Hispanic Center, a nonpartisan research organization in Washington, D.C., found the number of "unauthorized migrants" rose from about 3 million in 1980 to 11.1 million last year to nearly 12 million this year.

The report's author, Jeffrey Passel, attributed the increase to a combination of jobs that attracted mostly low-skilled workers from Latin America and increased border enforcement that made them reluctant to return home. Of the 12 million total, 7.2 million undocumented immigrants were employed in March 2005, making up about 4.9 percent of the civilian labor force.

While 94 percent of men illegally in the country hold jobs, undocumented women are less likely to hold jobs than legal or native-born workers, largely because of the presence of children in their families, the study said.

About 3.1 million children, or two-thirds of all the children in families that include illegal immigrants, were born in the United States and are citizens. The number of children born here to illegal immigrants is used by advocates of tighter controls as an argument against issuing temporary worker visas.

Activists on both sides of the issue said the study underscored that the country's immigration system is dysfunctional and needs to be fixed - although they offered different solutions. Meanwhile, business interests especially want new "guest worker" visas and legal status for immigrants already here because, they say, the economy needs the immigrants who are filling unwanted jobs.

Thousands of people have protested outside Congress against an immigration bill. This week, Senate debate continues to heat up on several controversial proposals in the legislation. Critics of the measure demand that illegal immigrants be granted residency. But the bill has strong support from the Bush administration . The President has said he would sign the bill into law if it is passed by the Senate.

For an in-depth look at the story, check out reports from AZ Central.com and Voice of America.

Related: Specter proposes guest worker program


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Tuesday, March 07, 2006

Filmmaker Gordon Parks dies

Directed 'Shaft' and 'The Learning Tree'

Movie director and photographer Gordon Parks is dead at the age of 93. For years, Parks captured poignant images for Life magazine. He then went on to critical acclaim as a Hollywood director, scoring with The Learning Tree and Shaft. USA Today chronicles Parks' accomplishments.

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Google to offer 'online hard drive'

Reports spread quickly through the blogosphere

Web giant Google reportedly is planning a massive online storage initiative. The initiative, known as the GDrive, would allow users to store their personal files on Google servers and access them on the Web. The plans allegedly were revealed accidentally after a blogger spotted notes in a slideshow presentation inadvertently published on Google's site.

The GDrive, previously the subject of chatroom rumor, would offer a mirror of users' hard drives. At Google's annual analyst conference last Thursday, Chief Executive Eric Schmidt reportedly confirmed the existence of the GDrive service. Google declined to comment on the reports but said the slide notes had now been deleted. Reuters has more.


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Patriot Act heads to Bush for approval

President calls act vital tool against terrorism

Congress on Tuesday renewed controversial provisions of the U.S.A. Patriot Act -- a vote which sends the measure to President Bush for his signature. The law has been bouncing between the House and Senate for weeks as both chambers looked for an acceptable compromise.

Passed in the weeks after the September 11 attacks, it is intended to help investigate and capture possible terrorists -- but includes powers such as allowing library and medical records to be accessed without a court order. Details from ABC News.


Related: CNN


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Thursday, March 02, 2006

All dictionaries are NOT alike


DCS

[noun]

A real life terminator




'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com

Via: Restrained Outbursts

Bush administration warned about Katrina destruction

AP reports on final briefing held before the storm hit

A newly released video transcript from the day the Hurricane Katrina struck seems to reinforce strong criticism that governments at all levels were ill-prepared for the storm that flooded most of New Orleans and killed more than 1,000 people in three states. Details: ABC News/AP.


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